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Nobody prepared me for what my body felt like after birth.
Not weak, exactly. But different. Disconnected. Like the relationship I’d had with my core for my entire adult life had quietly been renegotiated while I was busy having a baby — and nobody had thought to tell me.
I had spent nine months watching my body do something extraordinary. And then she arrived, and I was supposed to just… get back to normal. Except the core that had always been there wasn’t quite there anymore. And nobody was talking about it in terms I could actually use.
I want to be very honest about something before I say anything else: the pressure to “bounce back” is one of the most damaging ideas in postpartum culture. It frames recovery as a race. It treats your body as something that needs to be corrected rather than supported. And it sets up a timeline that has nothing to do with what’s actually happening inside a postpartum body.
This post is not about bouncing back. It’s about what I actually did — slowly, carefully, in my own time — to rebuild a relationship with a body that had worked incredibly hard and needed something different from me now.
The first week — and why I started earlier than most people expect
My gynaecologist was specific, which I was grateful for. Not “rest and wait,” but actual guidance: start gentle movements as soon as you feel ready. Begin with pelvic floor work and deep core breathing immediately — these are not exercises in the traditional sense. They’re reconnection.
Around one week postpartum, when I could begin to make some sense of a routine, I started.
Deep diaphragmatic breathing — breathing into the lower ribs and allowing the pelvic floor to release on the inhale and gently lift on the exhale. This is not Kegels. It’s not about squeezing as hard as possible. It’s about learning to breathe in a way that reconnects the breath, the deep abdominal muscles, and the pelvic floor into one coordinated system.
Short gentle walks. Nothing that created pressure or heaviness. If something felt wrong, I stopped.
This was the whole of week one.
And it was enough.
Six weeks — and the beginning of the next phase
At six weeks my gynaecologist cleared me for more movement. Gentle yoga. Light exercise. Nothing high-impact yet. Nothing that loaded the core before it was ready.
This is the phase where I think most postpartum mamas are most vulnerable — because the six-week check happens, the word “cleared” is used, and it’s very easy to interpret that as permission to just go back to how things were before.
It isn’t.
“Cleared” means it’s safe to progress. It doesn’t mean your pelvic floor and core are ready for whatever you put them through. It means the conversation about what comes next should start now.
For me, the question was simple:
How do I move from breathing exercises and gentle walks into something more structured — without accidentally doing too much too soon?
That’s where the MUTU System came in.
What the MUTU System actually is — honestly
The MUTU System is a 12-week online program created by Wendy Powell, a certified postpartum exercise specialist. It was designed specifically for diastasis recti, pelvic floor dysfunction, and core rehabilitation after birth.
The thing that set it apart for me was what it wasn’t.
It wasn’t a postpartum fitness programme disguised as rehabilitation.
It wasn’t about looking a certain way or losing weight.
It wasn’t another version of bounce-back culture dressed up in softer language.
The focus is functional strength, recovery, and rebuilding confidence in your body.
The programme has two parts:
MUTU Core — breathing, alignment, deep core activation, posture work, and pelvic floor rehabilitation.
MUTU Intensive — progressive workouts that build on that foundation once your body is ready.
You can begin the Core work very early postpartum and progress to the Intensives later with medical clearance.
What I appreciated most was how slow the beginning felt.
Actually, that frustrated me at first.
The first two weeks repeat the same foundational work. I kept expecting the programme to move faster.
But eventually I realised that was the point.
Pregnancy changes the way the core functions. Birth changes it again. Before adding intensity, you need to rebuild communication between the breath, pelvic floor, and deep abdominal muscles.
The early work feels simple because it’s foundational.
And foundations are rarely exciting.
They’re just important.
What nobody told me about diastasis recti
Most women have some degree of abdominal separation after birth.
Most are never told.
Diastasis recti is the separation of the left and right sides of the abdominal muscles along the connective tissue that runs down the centre of the abdomen. During pregnancy, that tissue stretches to accommodate your growing baby.
For many women, some separation remains postpartum.
The thing I wish more people explained is that the size of the gap isn’t always the most important factor.
Function matters.
A smaller gap with poor tension can cause more symptoms than a larger gap with good tension and support.
Symptoms can include:
- Lower back pain
- Core weakness
- A persistent “mummy tummy”
- Pelvic floor dysfunction
- A feeling of instability through the middle
And certain exercises — particularly high-pressure movements introduced too early — can make symptoms worse.
This is why the weeks between birth and returning to normal exercise matter so much.
It’s not about avoiding movement.
It’s about progressing intelligently.
Can you start MUTU years after having a baby?
One thing that surprised me while researching MUTU is how many women start long after the newborn phase.
Diastasis recti, pelvic floor dysfunction, and core weakness don’t always disappear simply because time passes.
Some women discover these issues six months postpartum.
Some discover them six years postpartum.
The programme isn’t designed only for newly postpartum mothers. It’s also intended for women who are still dealing with symptoms long after birth and want structured guidance on how to rebuild strength safely.
If you’ve been told to simply “do more core work” but something still feels off, you’re not the only one.
The evidence behind the programme
This is where MUTU separates itself from many postpartum fitness programmes.
A clinical survey of more than 900 women found:
- 94% of women with diastasis recti reported improvement
- 97% who previously struggled to engage their pelvic floor muscles could do so after three weeks
- 92% of women experiencing urinary leakage reported improvement
The programme has also been trialled within NHS settings and reviewed against standards including clinical efficacy, patient safety, and data compliance.
Those numbers don’t guarantee results for every individual.
But they do suggest that the programme is built on more than marketing claims.
Who MUTU is genuinely for
- Mamas in the early postpartum period who want structured guidance
- Women dealing with diastasis recti
- Anyone experiencing pelvic floor dysfunction, leaking, pressure, or prolapse symptoms
- Mamas returning to exercise after birth who want a proper foundation
- Women years postpartum who still feel disconnected from their core
Who should consider other options or additional support
- If your symptoms are mild and you’re already working with a pelvic floor physiotherapist, you may not need a structured programme
- If your symptoms are severe, in-person assessment from a pelvic floor specialist should be your first step
- If you know consistency is a challenge right now, be honest about whether you’ll realistically use the programme
The honest tradeoffs
No programme is perfect.
The early weeks can feel repetitive.
Because the content is pre-recorded, it cannot tailor itself to your specific presentation in the way an individual physiotherapist can.
The pricing sits at around $28 per month or approximately $190 per year, though pricing can change over time.
There is a 10-day free trial available, which is what I would recommend starting with.
If you’re unsure, try the monthly option first before committing to a longer plan.
What I want you to take away from this
Your body after birth is not broken.
It is not behind.
It is not in need of correction.
It is a body that has done something enormous and is now in a process of rebuilding.
That process deserves patience, support, and guidance that respects what postpartum recovery actually looks like.
The pelvic floor and breathing work I started in week one was not dramatic.
It was quiet.
Easy to underestimate.
Almost invisible from the outside.
But it built the foundation for everything that came after.
And the MUTU programme gave me a structure for that transition period that I genuinely couldn’t have built for myself from random videos and free content online.
Because I didn’t know what safe progression looked like.
I am stronger now than I was before I had her.
Not in a way that shows up in a before-and-after photo.
In a way that shows up in how I move through my day.
That, for me, is the whole point.
If you have questions about any of this — where to start, whether MUTU might be right for you, or what my experience with specific stages was like — reach out.
I’d genuinely be happy to help.
📌 Save this for any mama who is wondering how to begin moving again — and wants the honest version, not the bounce-back version.
Lots of love,
Mama Rooted
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